Sunday, January 31, 2016

Surviving Winter

I wish all of January's weather was as nice as today.  Nothing like going outside to play with sweatshirts on January 31st.  Overall this hasn't been a bad winter, but miss the mild temps of December that let us play outside all month.  Being in the house with three 2 year olds everyday can get chaotic.  It was nice to go out and get fresh air and watch the kids play and laugh outside.  We went out last week in the snow, which wasn't a success.  Danny had a full meltdown because he didn't have full dexterity in his fingers when wearing mittens.  How is a boy supposed to play, Mom?  Really.  Sammy and Elsie did OK, nobody was over the moon about it though.  I'd say let's how they do next storm, but I'm really hoping for spring instead.

Trying some new things this month with food.  Letting kids really work on feeding themselves ALL foods, even the really messy ones, like yogurt.  Also been making the bites bigger and really working on chewing and taking their own normal size bites.  As with anything, victory in some areas, disaster in others.  We are definitely seeing a lot of indecisiveness at the food table.  One day they adore a meal, the next day it's like feeding them live bugs the disgust is so great.  Danny is funny at mealtimes, he will assess what is on his plate, carefully pick out any ingredient he doesn't like, and pass it to Sammy.  He can't pass it to Elsie anymore as she has been banned from the triplet table until further notice.  She used to sit in the middle until she decided winging plates across the kitchen was a fun game.  As soon as she would finish, she would say 'all done' and frisbee her plate, then turn to her brothers, launch their plates off the table and rip off their bibs.  Apparently when she is done, everyone is done.  So now she sits by herself so the damage is minimal.  The worst part is I think she likes it and thinks it's a special seat.  You really can't win with toddlers.

Talking is coming along.  I feel like they add new words each day.  It's nice hearing clearer versions of some words that you weren't sure if they were saying.  Still having tons of blubbering jargon that no one can understand, but definitely getting easier to get the message they are trying to communicate.  And the comprehension is amazing at times.  Elsie had been saying purple for a while, and I attributed it to the fact her toothbrush is purple so we say that word every night.  But I was playing with her with these new pegs we have and asked her to grab the blue one, and she did.  So I ran through every other color they came in, and each time she looked and grabbed the right color.  So even though she can't say all her colors yet, she knows them.  So exciting.

The kids have enjoyed playing with all the new toys they got for Christmas this month.  They really like music stuff, and the harmonica they got has been a big hit.  They also like the drum, the maracas, our piano, and a play guitar.  One will play the harmonica and another will run over to the piano and start banging the keys.  Hoping all of these jam sessions land them some gigs when they grow up!  Sammy also loves kicking and throwing the ball.  And he's good, very coordinated.  His favorite toys right now are cars, and you can hear him 'vroom, vrooming' all over the living room.  Elsie is into puzzles and books, her etch a sketch writing pad, and jumping on the trampoline.  Danny is into any toy someone else is using.  And any toy he has previously played with that someone is thinking of playing with now.  He collects many of his favorite toys in the morning and will carry them around the living room wherever he goes so no one else can play with them.  They boy will literally have 5 or 6 toys in his arms.  Sometimes he puts them in a bucket to make it easier to carry around.  My son the 2 year old hoarder.

Wrapping up the month we started potty training Elsie on Friday.  Last week she started with the taking her clothes off.  But that escalated quickly, and Thursday after breakfast I found her completely naked, diaper off, sitting in her own pee.  OK.  Time to potty train for her.  We didn't do the 3 day naked per se, but kind of a hybrid from a book called 'oh crap!  potty training' that is on a 3-7 day training cycle.  They break it into blocks...clueless, I peed, I'm peeing, I have to go pee'.  I liked the platform, simple and direct, like teaching a new skill.  We are on day 3 and seeing progress.  We have had 100% success rates for pooping on the potty (woo hoo!), but peeing has been a little tougher.  We've had several pees on the potty but all with prompting to go and try.  This evening was the first time she initiated going to the potty and sitting down on her own and actually made something happen.  Hoping it sticks and she gets it before our vacation in a few weeks.  I know it won't be perfect but hoping it will be very manageable by then.

Lastly, Sammy crawled out of the crib last week.  Twice.  Definitely not a mistake.  Surprisingly though he has not done it since.  We have taken the initiative to buy the toddler bed conversion kits.  And now we wait.  Praying we get through vacation in pack and plays before the jail break happens.

Enjoy all the pics and videos!  More videos now because it is the easiest way to capture them!


oh ya know. just a typical day with a drawer emptied out and a half naked Elsie dancing in the kitchen


loves this new truck

visiting Tio Celso.  Glad it was too mild to have the wood stove on yet!

She just LOVES her english muffin pizza

Play date with Ki!

These two. 

practicing our writing and drawing skills

This boy loves me.  Loves to snuggle his momma.

love me, momma

I left the room for a second....

explaining what happened

sassy girl

practicing her smile

wearing our Portuguese jackets!


swimming lessons

the beginning before it got too messy


fingers.  spoon.  what's the difference really.

she is not a fan of it on her fingers


love that smile


let me just push my hair out of my face with this yogurt filled hand...

all bundled up

she didn't mind it

he hates it

selfie Elsie.  same face.  every picture.


was making lunch and came back to a mess, and the chair moved in the center of the room and Sam and Elsie snuggling in it watching the minions.


this doesn't happen often.  especially if I'm in the room.


loves breaking up the floor puzzle

It's go time!

This girl is going places



playing outside on Jan 31st.  love his smile!



He's so full of expression.  Love his faces.

getting a push from his brother

resting with Ki.



We got a new shelving system to clean up.  This lasted 3 hours and now is just the bins on the floor because the boys decided to use it like parallel bars and swing from it.

One of our new favorite toys, stackable pegs!



The kids playing

Our lunch meltdown.  It's not all rainbows and butterflies folks.  The struggle is real.



Coloring!  And not eating the crayons (too much) to boot!  woo hoo

The boys playing nicely together.  You don't see this everyday.

Everyone loves the new trampoline

yogurt covered triplets, it's the new snack!


Here is our '30 min to get ready, 8 minutes in the snow playing' video!


The kids even practice their swimming at home.  In the toys. Ay yi yi.

Kids playing

Dancing Queen jamming out to Bubble Guppies



Saturday, January 2, 2016

Saying goodbye to 2015

Here we are wrapping up another year.  Wowzers.  It has been another incredible year raising triplets. Many days are hard and exhausting, but so rewarding.  Someone once said to me 'the days go by slow, but the weeks go by fast.'  So true.  There are many days I count down the minutes to their nap or bedtime, and then I blink and a month has passed.  I can't express how much joy they bring to our lives, even when they are driving us crazy.  

I looked at the kids standing by the door yesterday and couldn't believe they can easily reach the handle and open the door.  They have grown inches in the last few months.  This has been the fastest growth spurts we have seen to date.  In June Elsie was wearing 6-9 months (and still a few 3-6 mo outfits!) even though she was 21 months.  By September she was in 12 month clothing and now she is in 18 months.  That girl is whizzing through wardrobes.  It's nice to see her catching up in height with her brothers.  They have also had a good spurt going moving from 12 months in June to 18-24 month clothing now.  All their pants are getting short, but they aren't chubby enough to hold up 24 month pants yet.  I haven't weighed them in over a month, but we were all between 21 and 26 pounds and 30-34 inches.

We had a fun month with holiday festivities, going to Miguel's parents for Christmas Eve, hanging out in our jammies on Christmas Day, and going to my family gathering on the Sunday after Christmas.  I use the term fun here very loosely, as the kids are challenging to coral in any non-gated place for any length of time to open gifts, are easily distracted and run off in different directions, and are curious and want to investigate everything (think cup of coffee on the table, fireplace pokers, how the oven door works, the button on the cable box...) Usually by the time we get home from these 3 hour events, Miguel and I feel we've run a marathon and are spent for the day.  I have almost no pictures from these events because I didn't have a minute  (or a free hand) to take any.  Luckily, some family members did, as they were laughing watching us chase our tails.  As exhausting as it is, it is really awesome to watch the kids learn new things in new places.

We've started speech therapy with Early Intervention.  The kids are in the program until 3 years old due to their extreme prematurity, and although they are speaking more and more, they are not closing the speech gap between corrected age and actual age like they are closing the other categories (cognitive, motor skills).  It's great because the therapist comes to the house once a week and works with them, and what a difference I've seen in 2 weeks, as they are really imitating words and spontaneously coming out with new ones.  It's really exciting hearing them make sense.

Speaking of hearing, we are working on our listening skills.  Sam is a selective listener, hears everything you say, chooses what he wants to respond to.  He'll pretend he didn't hear 'let's clean up', or 'let's get dressed', but will quickly respond to a movie request, or a new toy, or any phrase that starts with 'don't make me turn the tv off...'  Danny is a great listener.  This kid continues to surprise me every day,  If you would have asked me if my most mischievous child would be the best listener, I would have belly laughed.  I don't know if it is because he is the middle child, but he aims to please.  He likes to clean up, and gets genuinely excited when you praise him.  If you ask him to bring something to his siblings, he runs it over to them.  Elsie, ahh Elsie.  Boy are we in trouble with this one.  When one of the kids aren't listening we ask 'do you have your listening ears on?'  Well Elsie now points to her listening ears, and looks at you like 'yea I hear you', and then continues to do whatever the hell she wants.  We are trying time out, restricting rewards, praising only the good behavior, we've slapped her hand and her bum, to no avail.  Now, she will go to do something she knows she is not supposed to (like unplug the tv) and she will stop, look right at you, smirk, point to her ears and yank it out of the socket.  She'll even slap her own hand after she does something wrong.  Great. Glad her cognitive abilities are intact.  And she loves time out.  She sits there and laughs.  She thinks the time out chair is her personal throne.  Oh boy.  And poor Sammy is so sensitive he cries the second she gets in trouble. So he delivers the emotional response she should, while she sits there in time out giggling and clapping.  Meanwhile, Danny stands there saying 'uh oh', 'no way', and 'sorry' while she is being disciplined.  It's a 3 ring circus.

Lots of videos this blog post, but not as many pics considering it has been a month.  I feel like I am so busy I don't get that many, and a lot that I do are blurry because my little tornadoes don't stand still for a second.  I'll make it one of my new year's resolutions to take more pics.  Hope everyone had a great holiday, on to 2016!

Finished their sweaters!  And 2 out of 3 smiling! woot woot


We love spending December days in the park!  So glad the weather has been nice



snack time


ready for the game

He looks like such a big boy, tall and thin


lounging



selfies



another day at the park, stopping for a snack


on the big boy swing

my heart


love his smile

watching a movie

the selfie king

no caption needed

riding the bikes upside down

they love raspberries


Danny telling me he is all done

we love reading


out cold on the way to Vovo's

Christmas jammies


runaway naked boy

they love the truck


christmas jammies!



she loves her guitar


and her minnie mouse hat

sam figuring out his tablet

making a puzzle on the tablet

these next few pics have the best faces




Love this pic.  Brothers.

This is my aunt's tree, we weren't brave enough for a tree this year


Danny's way of saying I'm sick of ham leftovers.  Made grilled ham and cheese sandwiches and he pulled out all the ham and threw it on the floor, then at the grilled cheese.

Sammy feeding the dogs


3 piece band


typical saturday morning in our house


selfie

pictures from my family gathering.  I love Sammy listening to Bean intently here

Daddy and Sammy

Grammy, Mommy, Danny and Elsie






This is the best video.  The guys are building a stone wall, and Sam watches, then picks up a golf club (hammer) and chisels his own rock like the guys are doing.  He is Daddy's boy.



Danny making puzzles



gate climbers



feeding the dogs



breakfast dancing



boys will be boys



building blocks



bike jam session



Elsie the entertainer



new dance moves



opening presents



little drummer girl



selfie video